Welcome to the New Mediocracy! It's the way things are here these days, Neil. There are no such beings as losers, and every aspect of life is "dumbed down" to make sure that remains the case! Nanny uses weasel words like "inclusion", don't you know!
There are no such things as problems (only "issues"), and no-one ever carries the can when things go wrong (as they so often do) ... only "lessons shall be learned".
And lazy? Come, come. "Motivationally challenged", surely? And (again) that will be someone else's fault:- "disadvantaged" background, cat died when I was two years old, don't like Tuesdays, Granny never loved me ... Man, the list (of excuses) is endless.
Meanwhile, we may as well link
... if only to get back on topic!