All I can say (as someone who follows this forum a fair bit) is that I've never noticed whatever it was you were supposed to have said to offend, DM.
I find that people in Modern Britain are all too ready to take offence in general. I my opinion, that's probably because, being too wrapped up in their own self-importance, they never take the time to consider the other fellow's point of view (it's always "what
I want", "how
I feel",
etc.). A nation of wallys.
If people engage in conversations on a public forum, they must expect a bit of
give and take. Without the
banter, this site would be very dull indeed! Keep learning, Darren, you're one of the best, Mate. You see, as I
don't come from Hartlepool, I've got nothing against monkeys (cheeky or otherwise)!
I do believe, however, that things have been said on this forum that would probably not be said face-to-face. That's the rule that I adopt myself (and I would recommend it to others):- if you've got the balls to say it directly to the guy if and when you meet him ... then fair enough, go ahead and post. But if you haven't, then keep your trap shut (or else you might regret it when you
do meet)!
Personally, I doubt that I would be "terribly upset" (or "disgusted", to use a word much over-used by low-life, and in the media) by
anything posted on this forum. But, that's probably because I don't have much of an
ego, but am all in favour of simple traditional values like "do as be done by", and "live, and let live". Frankly, some people need to
chill out and
get a life (as my son, one of the Nintendo Generation, would no doubt advise).
Be humble ... but be happy!
